If you have been watching a lot of porn for research about swinging and swingers clubs, then the information you’ve gathered so far is a lie. Swingers clubs are bars that specifically cater to people living “The Lifestyle.” It is where like-minded enthusiasts (or escorting partners ) meet to party and eventually do what they love doing: swinging! Swingers clubs are not actually how porn videos painted them to be. It’s not always a large room full of people having sex, walking around in all their glory, and
While some clubs allow doing the deed out in the open, some offer private rooms. These rooms serve as a safe place for swinging couples who do not want to have sex out in the open. Swinging does not have a written rule on how to do things. However, the unwritten rule of swingers clubs is respect for other people. That means that not everyone is willing to play with just about anyone; jumping in without being invited is a sure ticket out of the party.
Swingers clubs exist to get it on with people you connect with, just like the dating scene. You need to socialize and know the other couple’s rules, and if you agree to it, you get to do it with them.